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Marriage is a journey and a lot is required to make that journey a smooth one.
One thing that will definitely make your relationship or marriage work out well is your ability to choose the right partner that is heading in the same direction as you.
Any relationship where the two individuals lack in the area of purpose compatibility then, that relationship will be a very difficult one.
Attraction is good. Attraction is very important.
Attraction doesn't just refer to looks but in our generation today when you hear attraction people often refer to the physical appearance and many persons get married because of just physical appearance.
To be physically attracted to someone is important but if you make a marital decision just based on looks alone then you are planning to have a failed marriage.
One thing about looks is that it's never consistent, and anything can happen to change that look.
She is slim fit now but don't forget she might get fat after the first child.
He might develop pot belly after eating your delicious meal.
The breast will sag one day.
Or do we even talk about the unforeseen circumstances of accidents that we pray against that might happen?
You will see ladies and guys cuter than your partner if it's about looks that's why most persons cheat on their partner.
I don't even want to tell you to go after character because any sensible person would and anybody that wants a happy home will definitely do that.
What I basically want to tell you today is that you should focus your choice of who to marry based on your journey in life.
Therefore,
First, ask yourself, Where am I heading to?
Secondly, ask yourself, Who is fit, or has the right tools to go on this journey with me no matter the odds?
Thirdly, ask yourself, How can I help him or her get to where they are going easily?
These questions are core questions anybody that wants to get it right must answer honestly to avoid destiny mismatch.
Destiny mismatch can be said to be two good persons going on a different direction in life coming together as husband and wife.
Good looks, no difficult flaws, no fight, no quarrel, no violence, good communication but conflicting passions, life goals that can't be reconciled.
She might look good but lacks the capacity to nurture your dreams with you.
He might look wealthy and fresh but lack the ability to allow you to birth your dreams.
You might talk a lot but you don't see yourself in their future because where they are going is not where you want to go.
Marriage is a journey that requires two individuals who are heading in the same direction and willing to help each other get there.
As a man, you need to have dreams and aspiration and as a woman, you need those too, therefore find someone that is ready to support you to become the best version of yourself and at the same time, you support them to become the best version of themselves, that way both of you will enjoy the journey of marriage together.
It's a long trip, also ensure you choose wisely who your seatmate is even if you are heading towards the same direction because you are not allowed to swap seat once the journey begins.
Don't forget that the first thing to do towards having a successful marriage is giving your life to Christ.
Written by
Profit Eneh,
Life and Relationship Coach.
For more on compatibility, Watch his new video on YouTube 👇 and subscribe.
SIX AREAS TO TEST FOR COMPATIBILITY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
One thing that will definitely make your relationship or marriage work out well is your ability to choose the right partner that is heading in the same direction as you.
Any relationship where the two individuals lack in the area of purpose compatibility then, that relationship will be a very difficult one.
Attraction is good. Attraction is very important.
Attraction doesn't just refer to looks but in our generation today when you hear attraction people often refer to the physical appearance and many persons get married because of just physical appearance.
To be physically attracted to someone is important but if you make a marital decision just based on looks alone then you are planning to have a failed marriage.
One thing about looks is that it's never consistent, and anything can happen to change that look.
She is slim fit now but don't forget she might get fat after the first child.
He might develop pot belly after eating your delicious meal.
The breast will sag one day.
Or do we even talk about the unforeseen circumstances of accidents that we pray against that might happen?
You will see ladies and guys cuter than your partner if it's about looks that's why most persons cheat on their partner.
I don't even want to tell you to go after character because any sensible person would and anybody that wants a happy home will definitely do that.
What I basically want to tell you today is that you should focus your choice of who to marry based on your journey in life.
Therefore,
First, ask yourself, Where am I heading to?
Secondly, ask yourself, Who is fit, or has the right tools to go on this journey with me no matter the odds?
Thirdly, ask yourself, How can I help him or her get to where they are going easily?
These questions are core questions anybody that wants to get it right must answer honestly to avoid destiny mismatch.
Destiny mismatch can be said to be two good persons going on a different direction in life coming together as husband and wife.
Good looks, no difficult flaws, no fight, no quarrel, no violence, good communication but conflicting passions, life goals that can't be reconciled.
She might look good but lacks the capacity to nurture your dreams with you.
He might look wealthy and fresh but lack the ability to allow you to birth your dreams.
You might talk a lot but you don't see yourself in their future because where they are going is not where you want to go.
Marriage is a journey that requires two individuals who are heading in the same direction and willing to help each other get there.
As a man, you need to have dreams and aspiration and as a woman, you need those too, therefore find someone that is ready to support you to become the best version of yourself and at the same time, you support them to become the best version of themselves, that way both of you will enjoy the journey of marriage together.
It's a long trip, also ensure you choose wisely who your seatmate is even if you are heading towards the same direction because you are not allowed to swap seat once the journey begins.
Don't forget that the first thing to do towards having a successful marriage is giving your life to Christ.
Written by
Profit Eneh,
Life and Relationship Coach.
For more on compatibility, Watch his new video on YouTube 👇 and subscribe.
SIX AREAS TO TEST FOR COMPATIBILITY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
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