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Tunde Onakoya Breaks Guinness World Record For Longest Chess Marathon For Children's Education

  On April 17, 2024, amidst the bustling energy of Times Square, New York City, Tunde Onakoya embarked on a remarkable mission—to break the Guinness World Record for the longest chess marathon without losing a single game. But his endeavor is about more than just achieving a personal milestone; it's about making a difference in the lives of children around the world. As Tunde tirelessly maneuvered his chess pieces, he also set his sights on a lofty fundraising goal: one million dollars for children's education. In a heartfelt tweet, he declared, "Our mission to raise a million dollars for children's education has become our top priority. This is our purpose, our reason for being here." This commitment to philanthropy underscores Tunde's belief in the transformative power of education, particularly for African children facing socio-economic challenges. With each move on the chessboard, he's also making strides towards providing access to quality education a

How To Rekindle The Spark Of Faded Love On Marriage

   1.  Redeeming Your Time; Most women don't have time for their partner because of their job and house chores. By the time she will finish house chores after the stress from her working place, she is already tired to be available to her partner. Whenever the man makes a move toward her she says ''am tired" making the man feel so lonely and thinks she doesn't make to be with me. Some men leave home very early in the morning and return very late at night tired and wore out, he rushes to eat and go to bed in order to prepare for the next day leaving the wife lonely. Some men and women bring unfinished work from office to the house, the time he or she supposed to spend time with the partner will be use to finish the work.     To redeem your time, you have to plan yourself, have your schedule and assign time to spend with your partner. Organize yourself and use your time well, stop bringing work from your office unless when necessary. Instead of stopping by to have som

CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER RIGHTLY

      Marriage is a journey and a lot is required to make that journey a smooth one. One thing that will definitely make your relationship or marriage work out well is your ability to choose the right partner that is heading in the same direction as you. Any relationship where the two individuals lack in the area of purpose compatibility then, that relationship will be a very difficult one.      Attraction is good. Attraction is very important. Attraction doesn't just refer to looks but in our generation today when you hear attraction people often refer to the physical appearance and many persons get married because of just physical appearance. To be physically attracted to someone is important but if you make a marital decision just based on looks alone then you are planning to have a failed marriage. One thing about looks is that it's never consistent, and anything can happen to change that look. She is slim fit now but don't forget she might get fat after

How Do I Know She Loves Me?

    Love is a strong feeling and deep affection toward someone. Love is an evidence of what you feel for someone. If you say you love someone then there must be something to show for it. If she truly love you, she will do the following; 1. She will forgive your mistakes:     If  she loves you, she wouldn't find it hard to forgive your mistakes. She loves you that's why she look beyond your mistakes and show love and affection toward you. She allows herself to stay vulnerable with hope for a better you and she doesn't over react to your mistakes and provocations. 2. She encourages and supports your dreams:    She encourages you to achieve your dreams and goals, when you feel you have lost touch of your dreams, she tells you, you can do it. She always got your back even when you want to give up, she motivates you to keep on trying. She supports you with time and ideas to make sure you achieve your aim. 3. She loves spending time with you:     One of the signs she love

Platonic Love And It's Characteristics

   Platonic Love  is a close relationship between two persons in which sexual desire is non-existent or has been suppressed or sublimated. It is non-romatic ie no lots of cuddling, touch, hand holding, sex etc. It often grow from friendship into strong bond.    It is named after Greek philosopher Plato, though the philosopher never used the term himself. Platonic love as devised by Plato concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls and eventually, union with the truth. This is ancient philosophical interpretation.         Characteristics Of Platonic Love 1. Platonic Love Encourages   Complete Honesty:  Honesty is the highest form of intimacy and it is openness to someone. Platonic love is fair, it involves sincerity and truthfulness no matter what, being real with yourself, who you are and what you are. 2. Platonic Love Has No Expectations: "Blessed is he who expect nothing, for he

DISCUSSION TIME

   He was 32 years, she said she was 31 years. They fell in love, two weeks to their traditional marriage, he discovered that she was 37.     Question; If you were in his shoes, what would you do? OR If you were his sister or brother what would you advise?   Use the comment section below to answer.

Tips For Healthy Relationship

1. Communication is vital; In every healthy relationship communication is important, no person is perfect which implies there is no perfect relationship. A healthy communication makes it easier to express your heart and talk about your misunderstanding. Instead of holding it to yourself when your partner might not be aware of your pain say it out and let your partner know how you feel and why you feel that way. Your partner might not know you don't like something until you say it. Communication make it easier to deal with conflict and resolve issues which may lead to further quarrels. 2. Trust your partner; Trust is the basic of any healthy relationship. Don't keep a relationship with someone you don't trust. Trust makes you to be open about who you are, believe your partner, have confidence, free safe and believe your partner will be royal to you. 3. Admit when you are wrong; Admitting that you are wrong is a way of accepting that you are not perfect and shows that you

5 ways to keep a healthy relationship

1. Always tell the truth:    Being honest is very important in a relationship, it is the key to a healthy relationship. Telling the truth makes you confident and you get the trust of your partner. It's important you tell the truth yourself, don't wait for he or her to find out. 2. Spend time together:    When you spend time together you get to know each other better and create a bond between you two. It good to spend quality time together because it helps grow your relationship. 3. Always keep to your promise:    When you keep to your promise in a relationship, it creats trust and bond but when you always break your promise it breaks the bond of trust. Keep your promise no matter the cost and do not promise what you cannot keep to or do. 4. Always keep to appioappoin:    Keep your calendar reminder on whenever you have plans with your partner. Don't make plans with your partner when you know you will not make it to the appointment. It's not good when you consta